D is not Decision, is Dreams

I thought it would be cool and relevant to bring back some understanding on a very alienated topic to the residents of Singapore and more significantly, friends. Topic on dreams. Not in the context of a visual during sleep, and also not in the context of building castle in the sky. But is the spark of all hopes, is believed to be dreams (at least that's what I do believe).

I don't know why it came to my mind to speak of this fundamental freedom of thinking. But I know it is going to make the difference to the people that sees, understands and evaluates it. Dreams are very important, but sad to say, in the present context of living and rationality, the extend of outreach only arrives at hopes and opportunities. It doesn't only applies to work, academic, social, project, entrepreneurship. It also applies to something even closer than all these, such as life, relationships, and friends.

The topic of discussion makes me feel a bit awkward as well, since the last time that I had a proper thought of dreams is when I was in secondary one (OMG!) and after that, I didn't go back to it again. And my dreams then was to overcome domestic pets' health just the same way MOH (Ministry of Health) would to the residents. Sounds good then, but the only reason why it has yet to be achieved is due to the understanding that I didn't properly cared for my studies then (LOL!).

Back to dreams. Why am I talking about dreams now then? Inclined towards love in relationship (especially something so exclusive such as homosexual serious relationship), I guess the only thing I can established now is the dream of the one man. And only by so, I am willing to put to try my last and only trust in having a fulfilling relationship in man. To also give this one man an opportunity to my vulnerability which no other things, no one and situations can access to.

In conjunction to discouragement of social acceptance to gay (or may I say it as, discrimination to homosexuality), my dream was that, may the gay community grows to be the majority and thus, leads to acceptance and appreciation of rainbow culture. It is not a futuristic thinking or what, but that, I believe that since gays can accept heterosexuality in the society, and even condone to metrosexuality (could also be a cover-up, as metrosexuals are believed to be straight), so why can't it be reciprocated? Since what the gay community needs is only acceptance and freedom, why not? It isn't like trying to legalize satanism in the Nation right..? (Comparable??)

Next, inclined towards my (gay) family and members, dream is to stay as the way a family would, live through thick and thin with the support and understanding at periods and moments of needs. And on top of that, we will forever be there for the priority of attention doesn't goes anything lesser than siblings and family members. The bottom-line of it is: We are family!

And one last thing, think of what dreams it would be in application to what you are facing. I am sure we all have dreams, don't extinct such an invaluable and sacred benefit. And always remember, sub-consciously we usually would take things for granted, so don't let it happen to dreams. The power to dream, gives the power to change, and leads to the power to live a better tomorrow (James Theory). Have a fun time reading and thinking. JamesW850i sign off